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I have yet to read an explanation of DD that alludes to anything other than an either/or position.
Either you are considering or walking in DD, or you are rebellious or immature.
I’ve talked to a few men who got “burned out” on DD after a while.
Their wife was “not behaving better” or “seemed to enjoy being spanked.” Some men report their wife seems more like a child to them, or that regularly spanking her “was tearing me up.” Some DDers practice what are called “maintenance sessions.” These sessions, usually done daily, consist of the wife listing all the rules she has broken, and the husband meting out what he considers appropriate disciple.
I can find no statement in scripture where God tells, or allows, husbands to physically discipline their wives (odd, because He doesn’t seem to have forgotten to tell parents to discipline their children).
I also find no reference to Christ physically disciplining His disciples or followers (the Christ/church and husband/wife analogy).
Having spent time reading messages from a number of DDers, I have a bit of insight into how DD can play out in a marriage.
If this is about a man’s authority, how can it be instigated by his wife?
DD lists are full of posts from women who want to know how to get their husband to participate.
The extension of this philosophy gets frightening pretty quick.
Why would God meet this “need” in marriage and leave the rest without the “help” that they need?
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Though I thoroughly agree with the structure of authority and submission in the home, I am concerned with including the physical discipline of adults in the structure of a godly marriage, the minimization of the wife’s adult abilities, and the level of dishonesty in the explanation of DD beliefs.